tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post4029786634764532435..comments2023-04-30T10:13:22.785+01:00Comments on Tara Finnegan Romance: Are you having a romance?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-82069248874244722032013-08-31T01:48:59.505+01:002013-08-31T01:48:59.505+01:00Thank's Cali,
I have to agree, there is nothin...Thank's Cali,<br />I have to agree, there is nothing sweeter than seeing an older couple walking hand in hand, it's something you always notice, no matter what you're at. Or a little smile, or speaking with their eyes without saying a word. <br />It would be an interesting study if (genuinely open minded) psychologists were to look at a representative group of DD/Taken in Hand/TTWD couples and "normal" couples and compared the matrimonial satisfaction ratings. <br />Who knows? Maybe even the fact that either one has trusted the other enough to tell of their desire or need just means that the relationship is strong in the first place, and then having those needs met is bound to strengthen it. Personally, I don't think it's only about the DD etc, so much as that any couple who work on trying to accommodate each others needs, wants and desires, whatever they might be are showing a huge consideration toward their partner. Maybe it's a touch of selflessness that keeps the magic alive. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-55544907906445783322013-08-30T23:49:03.646+01:002013-08-30T23:49:03.646+01:00Aww Tara,
I loved this. There is something so swe...Aww Tara,<br /><br />I loved this. There is something so sweet about a couple who are in love and have been in love for many years - who've made it through all of life's difficulties, and are still holding hands. <br /><br />Yes, the beginning of a relationship is so exciting as we are learning all about each other, and that's what is so fun to read about. <br /><br />But I also think that is what makes couples who practice dd/ttwd so exciting. It's that they/we are going deeper and are again learning new things about themselves and each other. And either falling back in love or just growing deeper in love - it's so wonderful!<br /><br />♥ CaliAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-73939401980104988492013-08-30T15:17:40.487+01:002013-08-30T15:17:40.487+01:00Sometimes he reads it, I always tell him when I me...Sometimes he reads it, I always tell him when I mention him because I would rather he know I am talking about him. I warn him when it has racier stuff, because even when I am talking about stuff that really happened it embarrasses him to read it.<br />I'm glad my blog makes you feel like we're in good company. I enjoy your blog too :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09958878959625455361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-65711353523436619312013-08-30T14:41:14.607+01:002013-08-30T14:41:14.607+01:00Gosh does he actually read your blog Casey? Now th...Gosh does he actually read your blog Casey? Now that's impressive. I love when you share the "shite" you two talk, makes me feel we're in good company. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-9626008090225781352013-08-30T14:39:06.570+01:002013-08-30T14:39:06.570+01:00 That sounds like such a contented statement, Rene... That sounds like such a contented statement, Renee. <br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-3344690827914631362013-08-30T12:22:23.768+01:002013-08-30T12:22:23.768+01:00My husband and I are really good at talking "...My husband and I are really good at talking "shite"... I wonder if he cringes when I share it on my blog? <br />Nice post, Tara!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09958878959625455361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-44168011791013754962013-08-30T05:20:09.801+01:002013-08-30T05:20:09.801+01:00It's lovely to have a romance with your spouse...It's lovely to have a romance with your spouse...Renee Rosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01414212384941364401noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-1554205292778509862013-08-29T17:18:01.737+01:002013-08-29T17:18:01.737+01:00Thianna, that's such a lovely story. It makes ...Thianna, that's such a lovely story. It makes me go all mushy. Thank you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-59938387303247097932013-08-29T17:15:29.073+01:002013-08-29T17:15:29.073+01:00Reading this makes me remember someone I adored fr...Reading this makes me remember someone I adored from my childhood. He and his wife were in their seventies back then. I remember something he said one day. That no matter what was going on in their relationship - from having kids to job issues to family problems - they kept each other as their primary focus. <br /><br />Except for when he was out in the service, they had date night once a week, a weekend at a hotel once a month, and every three months, they took a few days away from everyone they knew, just to themselves to get away and focus on each other. <br /><br />For them, romance was something they took seriously and you could tell. After fifty years together, their love for one another was something you could feel just by being in the same room with them.Thttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02995447825109758826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-73633238778081915772013-08-29T17:01:15.614+01:002013-08-29T17:01:15.614+01:00Way more important, and way more difficult at time...Way more important, and way more difficult at times when reality kicks in. Here's hoping for a lifetime :-)<br />Thanks CaraAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-20946563832548521272013-08-29T16:58:04.836+01:002013-08-29T16:58:04.836+01:00Very nice post. It is interesting that so many &qu...Very nice post. It is interesting that so many "romance" novels focus on the getting together, when what happens AFTER that point is much more important. The period of dating is typically only a small part of the relationship. Marriage lasts for many years, and even a lifetime.Cara Bristolhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13787980548582603649noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-35496371547257566732013-08-29T16:47:21.022+01:002013-08-29T16:47:21.022+01:00Fifteen years is quite a time. It's great to l...Fifteen years is quite a time. It's great to look back and be able to say we're stronger now than ever. Congratulations Natasha.<br />Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-347939869516275892013-08-29T16:42:30.995+01:002013-08-29T16:42:30.995+01:00Love this Tara. I've been with my husband for ...Love this Tara. I've been with my husband for 15 years or so and we have 2 kids. Our relationship is very different now than it was in the beginning. It's sexier, more romantic but also more full of love - at least for me. It takes a lot of talking and of course we still annoy the crap out of each there some days, but it's better now than it was in the beginning so we're having a romance!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07220029273749305283noreply@blogger.com