tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post6288481759957013410..comments2023-04-30T10:13:22.785+01:00Comments on Tara Finnegan Romance: #SpankingA2Z I is for IntimateAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-77334744219728578332014-06-11T17:25:56.464+01:002014-06-11T17:25:56.464+01:00LOL, John. They are as good safe-words as any! LOL, John. They are as good safe-words as any! Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-57290615283435887752014-06-11T17:24:08.065+01:002014-06-11T17:24:08.065+01:00That does answer my question, thoughtfully and bea...That does answer my question, thoughtfully and beautifully. I agree to each his, or her own. But it is important that each find and recognise what it is in their lives that will bring them fulfillment, and live true to that, while still respecting the needs of those they are intimate with, in whichever sense of the word. <br />Thank you Han. :)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05664433877029404270noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-56629114987514053942014-06-11T01:25:06.369+01:002014-06-11T01:25:06.369+01:00I like the point about Dom/Sub: my wife and I have...I like the point about Dom/Sub: my wife and I have two safewords. One for "STOPPPPP" and one "SLOW DOWN" and/or "Can we please discuss before continuing!"<br /><br />It helps us ;-) <br /><br />And my wife and I were in love before we had sex for the first time. <br /><br />John (aka BawdyBloke)Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16995694550753281311noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3371502481489121491.post-7364622869413341772014-06-10T21:14:18.431+01:002014-06-10T21:14:18.431+01:00It will probably not come as a surprise to you tha...It will probably not come as a surprise to you that yours truly, the incurable romantic needs to love, really love a woman first before there can be such a thing like sex and giving and taking control. When I begin a commitment, like a marriage or a stupid challenge, I am committed. I feel committed. I need feel it back as well, emotionally that is. <br /><br />I was raised liberated, each to his or her own. Poly and all that comes after that, is that is for you, fine! One night stand, girl as long as you are happy (and careful), fine! Doms and subs with contracts, fine! If you love and feel loved be my guest.<br /><br />But it's not me, Tara. I need the 1 on 1 connection, the trust, the bond, the feelings. For what would I be without my loved one? <br />Is that an answer to your question? I really like your posts Tara. Han Jansz. van Meegerenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16232852677191131702noreply@blogger.com